Archive for January, 2010

29
Jan
10

Opening the Hand of Thought


Kosho Uchiyama

The
world we live in is not something that exists independently of our
thoughts and ideas.  Our world and these thoughts and ideas appear to
us as a unified whole.  Depending on what our thoughts and ideas are,
our world may appear to us in completely different ways.  These
thoughts and feelings constitute our psychological condition. 
Moreover, our psychological condition is at the same time our
physiological condition.  When something breaks down inside of us
physically, our minds no longer remain clear. And if our minds are not
clear, then the eyes with which we see the whole world take on a gloomy
appearance.  On the other hand, when we feel healthy our minds
brighten, and so consequently our outlook on everything becomes
brighter.

Furthermore,
our physiological conditions are tremendously influenced by the
environment in which we live.  The changes and conditions of climate
and weather both affect us.  This cause and effect relationship is
particularly easy to see when you lead a life as unvaried and devoid of
distractions as the sesshins at Antaiji.

The
essential matter here is the attitude of just striving to wake up
regardless of the conditions you are in.  It is not about arriving at
some state where all thoughts have disappeared. To calmly sit amidst
these cause and effect relationships without being carried away by them
is shikantaza.

Like
the weather, there are all sorts of conditions in our personal lives:
clear days, cloudy days, rainy ones, and stormy ones.  These are all
waves produced by the power of nature and are not things over which we
have control.  No matter how much we fight against these waves, there
is no way we can make a cloudy day clear up.  Cloudy days are cloudy;
clear days are clear.  It is only natural that thoughts come and go and
that psychological and physiological conditions fluctuate accordingly. 
All of this is the very reality and manifestation of life.  Seeing all
of this as the scenery of life, without being pulled apart by it—this
is the stability of human life, this is settling down in our life.

In The Record of Linji, Linji Yixuan (Rinzai) says:

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The
true practitioner of the Way completely transcends all things. Even if
heaven and earth were to tumble down, I would have no misgivings. Even
if all the Buddhas in the ten directions were to appear before me, I
would not rejoice.
  Even if the three hells were to appear before me, I would have no fear. Why is this so?  Because there is nothing I dislike.

For
Rinzai, the appearance of all the buddhas in the past, present, and
future was not something to rejoice over, nor was the appearance of the
three hells something of which to be afraid.   Of course, not being
afraid of the appearance of some hell doesn’t mean that for Rinzai hell
had no existence.  For him, hell was a kind of scenery that was
different from the scenery of the Buddhas.  The point is that whether
some hell, all the buddhas, or anything appeared before him, Rinzai saw
all of these as the scenery of his life.  For us this is nothing but
the scenery of our zazen.

I
hope that people who practice zazen will continue regular sesshins and
daily zazen for at least ten years.  It’s a tremendous thing to be able
to give oneself to this kind of practice and not be caught up in
distractions.  Our deepest mental suffering will come up during these
years of zazen, and we will be able to continue our practice only if we
have the stability to see this suffering as the scenery of our life and
not be carried away by it.  Working through these ten years, we develop
a posture of living out the reality of our true self.

 

If
we lead this sort of life and sit zazen, at whatever age, there is no
doubt that we will come to have a commanding view of who we are.  When
we live this way, not only zazen, but daily life itself, is such that
we cannot find the value of our existence in what other people say or
in things that we want.  It is a life that is unbearable unless we
discover the value of our existence within ourselves.

What is
essential is for us to live out the reality of our true self whether we
are doing one period of zazen, a five-day sesshin, or practicing for
ten years or more.

The Activity of the Reality of Life

All of
us, regardless of whether we realize it or not, are living out the self
as the whole universe.  Since this is such a critical point, I’ll
repeat it here. Usually we make the idea of the small individual self
the center of our world and become firmly convinced that this small
individual self is our whole self, but this is not our true self.

The
reality of life goes beyond my idea of myself as a small individual. 
Fundamentally, our self is living out nondual life that pervades all
living things.  This self is universal existence, everything that
exists.  On the other hand, we usually lose sight of the reality of the
life of universal self, clouding it over with thoughts originating from
our small individual selves. 

When we
let go of our thoughts, this reality of life becomes pure and clear. 
Living out this reality of life as it is – that is, waking up and
practicing beyond thinking – is zazen.  At this very point our basic
attitude in practicing zazen becomes determined.  The attitude of the
practitioner in practicing zazen as a Mahayana Buddhist teaching never
means to attempt to artificially create some new self by means of
practice. 

Nor
should it be aiming at decreasing delusion and finally eliminating it
altogether.  We practice zazen, neither aiming at having a special
mystical experience nor trying to gain greater enlightenment.  Zazen as
true Mahayana teaching is always the whole self just truly being the
whole self, life truly being life.

We
all have eyes to see, but if we close them and say that the world is in
darkness, how can we say that we are living out the true reality of
life?  If we open our eyes we see the sun is shining brilliantly.  In
the same way, when we live open-eyed and awake to life, we discover
that we are living in the vigorous light of life.  All the ideas of our
small self are clouds that make the light of the universal self foggy
and dull.  Doing zazen, we let go of these ideas and open our eyes to
the clarity of the vital life of universal self.

 

We
discover the attitude of zazen as true Buddhism when we believe that
the truth of this small self as an individual entity is universal self
and actually practice the reality of life in zazen. This zazen is
referred to as the activity of the reality of life.

Excerpted from Opening the Hand of Thought – Foundations of Zen Buddhist Practice

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04
Jan
10

How We Get Hooked and How We Get Unhooked


Pema Chödrön

Shenpa is the urge, the hook, that
triggers our habitual tendency to close down. We get hooked in that
moment of tightening when we reach for relief. To get unhooked we begin
by recognizing that moment of unease and learn to relax in that moment.

You’re
trying to make a point with a coworker or your partner. At one moment
her face is open and she’s listening, and at the next, her eyes cloud
over or her jaw tenses. What is it that you’re seeing?
 
Someone
criticizes you. They criticize your work or your appearance or your
child. At moments like that, what is it you feel? It has a familiar
taste in your mouth, it has a familiar smell. Once you begin to notice
it, you feel like this experience has been happening forever.
 
The Tibetan word for this is shenpa. It is usually translated "attachment," but a more descriptive translation might be "hooked." When shenpa hooks us, we’re likely to get stuck. We could call shenpa
"that sticky feeling." It’s an everyday experience. Even a spot on your
new sweater can take you there. At the subtlest level, we feel a
tightening, a tensing, a sense of closing down. Then we feel a sense of
withdrawing, not wanting to be where we are. That’s the hooked quality.
That tight feeling has the power to hook us into self-denigration,
blame, anger, jealousy and other emotions which lead to words and
actions that end up poisoning us.

Remember the fairy tale in
which toads hop out of the princess’s mouth whenever she starts to say
mean words? That’s how being hooked can feel. Yet we don’t stop—we
can’t stop—because we’re in the habit of associating whatever we’re
doing with relief from our own discomfort. This is the shenpa
syndrome. The word "attachment" doesn’t quite translate what’s
happening. It’s a quality of experience that’s not easy to describe but
which everyone knows well. Shenpa is usually involuntary and it gets right to the root of why we suffer.
 
Someone looks at us in a certain way, or we hear a certain song, we smell a certain smell, we walk into a certain room and boom. The feeling has nothing to do with the present, and nevertheless, there it is. When we were practicing recognizing shenpa at Gampo Abbey, we discovered that some of us could feel it even when a particular person simply sat down next to us at the dining table.

 
Shenpa

thrives on the underlying insecurity of living in a world that is
always changing. We experience this insecurity as a background of
slight unease or restlessness. We all want some kind of relief from
that unease, so we turn to what we enjoy—food, alcohol, drugs, sex,
work or shopping. In moderation what we enjoy might be very delightful.
We can appreciate its taste and its presence in our life. But when we
empower it with the idea that it will bring us comfort, that it will
remove our unease, we get hooked.


So we could also call shenpa
"the urge"—the urge to smoke that cigarette, to overeat, to have
another drink, to indulge our addiction whatever it is. Sometimes
shenpa
is so strong that we’re willing to die getting this short-term
symptomatic relief. The momentum behind the urge is so strong that we
never pull out of the habitual pattern of turning to poison for
comfort. It doesn’t necessarily have to involve a substance; it can be
saying mean things, or approaching everything with a critical mind.
That’s a major hook. Something triggers an old pattern we’d rather not
feel, and we tighten up and hook into criticizing or complaining. It
gives us a puffed-up satisfaction and a feeling of control that
provides short-term relief from uneasiness.

 
Those
of us with strong addictions know that working with habitual patterns
begins with the willingness to fully acknowledge our urge, and then the
willingness not to act on it. This business of not acting out is called
refraining. Traditionally it’s called renunciation. What we renounce or refrain from isn’t food, sex, work or relationships per se. We renounce and refrain from the shenpa. When we talk about refraining from the shenpa, we’re not talking about trying to cast it out; we’re talking about trying to see the shenpa clearly and experiencing it. If we can see shenpa
just as we’re starting to close down, when we feel the tightening,
there’s the possibility of catching the urge to do the habitual thing,
and not doing it.


Without meditation practice, this is almost impossible to do.
Generally speaking, we don’t catch the tightening until we’ve indulged
the urge to scratch our itch in some habitual way. And unless we equate
refraining with loving-kindness and friendliness towards ourselves,
refraining feels like putting on a straitjacket. We struggle against
it. The Tibetan word for renunciation is
shenlok, which means turning shenpa
upside-down, shaking it up. When we feel the tightening, somehow we
have to know how to open up the space without getting hooked into our
habitual pattern.

In practicing with shenpa, first we try to recognize it. The best place to do this is on the meditation cushion.
Sitting practice teaches us how to open and relax to whatever arises,
without picking and choosing. It teaches us to experience the
uneasiness and the urge fully, and to interrupt the momentum that
usually follows. We do this by not following after the thoughts and
learning to come back to the present moment. We learn to stay with the
uneasiness, the tightening, the itch of
shenpa.
We train in sitting still with our desire to scratch. This is how we
learn to stop the chain reaction of habitual patterns that otherwise
will rule our lives. This is how we weaken the patterns that keep us
hooked into discomfort that we mistake as comfort. We label the spinoff
"thinking" and return to the present moment. Yet even in meditation, we experience
shenpa.


Let’s
say, for example, that in meditation you felt settled and open.
Thoughts came and went, but they didn’t hook you. They were like clouds
in the sky that dissolved when you acknowledged them. You were able to
return to the moment without a sense of struggle. Afterwards, you’re
hooked on that very pleasant experience: "I did it right, I got it
right. That’s how it should always be, that’s the model." Getting
caught like that builds arrogance, and conversely it builds poverty,
because your next session is nothing like that. In fact, your "bad"
session is even worse now because you’re hooked on the "good" one. You
sat there and you were discursive: you were obsessing about something
at home, at work. You worried and you fretted; you got caught up in
fear or anger. At the end of the session, you feel discouraged—it was
"bad," and there’s only you to blame.

 
Is there something inherently wrong or right with either meditation experience? Only the shenpa. The shenpa we feel toward "good" meditation hooks us into how it’s "supposed" to be, and that sets us up for shenpa towards how it’s not "supposed" to be. Yet the meditation is just what it is. We get caught in our idea of it: that’s the shenpa. That stickiness is the root shenpa.
We call it ego-clinging or self-absorption. When we’re hooked on the
idea of good experience, self-absorption gets stronger; when we’re
hooked on the idea of bad experience, self-absorption gets stronger.
This is why we, as practitioners, are taught not to judge ourselves,
not to get caught in good or bad.


What we really need to do is address things just as they are. Learning to recognize shenpa teaches
us the meaning of not being attached to this world. Not being attached
has nothing to do with this world. It has to do with
shenpa—being
hooked by what we associate with comfort. All we’re trying to do is not
to feel our uneasiness. But when we do this we never get to the root of
practice. The root is experiencing the itch as well as the urge to
scratch, and then not acting it out.

 
If we’re willing to practice this way over time, prajna
begins to kick in. Prajna is clear seeing. It’s our innate
intelligence, our wisdom. With prajna, we begin to see the whole chain
reaction clearly. As we practice, this wisdom becomes a stronger force
than
shenpa. That in itself has the power to stop the chain reaction.
 
Prajna
isn’t ego-involved. It’s wisdom found in basic goodness, openness,
equanimity—which cuts through self-absorption. With prajna we can see
what will open up space. Habituation, which is ego-based, is just the
opposite—a compulsion to fill up space in our own particular style.
Some of us close space by hammering our point through; others do it by
trying to smooth the waters.


We’re
taught that whatever arises is fresh, the essence of realization.
That’s the basic view. But how do we see whatever arises as the essence
of realization when the fact of the matter is, we have work to do? The key is to look into
shenpa.
The work we have to do is about coming to know that we’re tensing or
hooked or "all worked up." That’s the essence of realization. The
earlier we catch it, the easier
shenpa
is to work with, but even catching it when we’re already all worked up
is good. Sometimes we have to go through the whole cycle even though we
see what we’re doing. The urge is so strong, the hook so sharp, the
habitual pattern so sticky, that there are times when we can’t do
anything about it.

 
There
is something we can do after the fact, however. We can go sit on the
meditation cushion and re-run the story. Maybe we start with
remembering the all-worked-up feeling and get in touch with that. We
look clearly at the
shenpa in retrospect; this is very helpful. It’s also helpful to see shenpa arising in little ways, where the hook is not so sharp.

Buddhists are talking about shenpa
when they say, "Don’t get caught in the content: observe the underlying
quality—the clinging, the desire, the attachment." Sitting meditation
teaches us how to see that tangent before we go off on it. It basically
comes down to the instruction, "label it thinking." To train in this on
the cushion, where it’s relatively easy and pleasant to do, is how we
can prepare ourselves to stay when we get all worked up.

 
Then we can train in seeing shenpa
wherever we are. Say something to another person and maybe you’ll feel
that tensing. Rather than get caught in a story line about how right
you are or how wrong you are, take it as an opportunity to be present
with the hooked quality. Use it as an opportunity to stay with the
tightness without acting upon it. Let that training be your base.

 
You can also practice recognizing shenpa
out in nature. Practice sitting still and catching the moment when you
close down. Or practice in a crowd, watching one person at a time. When
you’re silent, what hooks you is mental dialogue. You talk to yourself
about badness or goodness: me-bad or they-bad, this-right or
that-wrong. Just to see this is a practice. You’ll be intrigued by how
you’ll involuntarily shut down and get hooked, one way or another. Just
keep labeling those thoughts and come back to the immediacy of the
feeling. That’s how not to follow the chain reaction.

 
Once we’re aware of shenpa,
we begin to notice it in other people. We see them shutting down. We
see that they’ve been hooked and that nothing is going to get through
to them now. At that moment we have prajna. That basic intelligence
comes through when we’re not caught up in escaping from our own unease.
With prajna we can see what’s happening with others; we can see when
they’ve been hooked. Then we can give the situation some space. One way
to do that is by opening up the space on the spot, through meditation.
Be quiet and place your mind on your breath. Hold your mind in place
with great openness and curiosity toward the other person. Asking a
question is another way of creating space around that sticky feeling.
So is postponing your discussion to another time.


At the abbey, we’re very fortunate that everybody is excited about working with shenpa.
So many words I’ve tried using become ammunition that people use
against themselves. But we feel some kind of gladness about working
with
shenpa,
perhaps because the word is unfamiliar. We can acknowledge what’s
happening with clear seeing, without aiming it at ourselves. Since no
one particularly likes to have his
shenpa
pointed out, people at the Abbey make deals like, "When you see me
getting hooked, just pull your earlobe, and if I see you getting
hooked, I’ll do the same. Or if you see it in yourself, and I’m not
picking up on it, at least give some little sign that maybe this isn’t
the time to continue this discussion." This is how we help each other
cultivate prajna, clear seeing.

 
We could think of this whole process in terms of four R’s: recognizing the shenpa, refraining from scratching, relaxing into the underlying urge to scratch and then resolving
to continue to interrupt our habitual patterns like this for the rest
of our lives. What do you do when you don’t do the habitual thing?
You’re left with your urge. That’s how you become more in touch with
the craving and the wanting to move away. You learn to relax with it.
Then you resolve to keep practicing this way.


Working with
shenpa softens us up. Once we see how we get hooked and how we get swept along by the momentum, there’s no way to be arrogant.
The trick is to keep seeing. Don’t let the softening and humility turn
into self-denigration. That’s just another hook. Because we’ve been
strengthening the whole habituated situation for a long, long time, we
can’t expect to undo it overnight. It’s not a one-shot deal. It takes
loving-kindness to recognize; it takes practice to refrain; it takes
willingness to relax; it takes determination to keep training this way.
It helps to remember that we may experience two billion kinds of itches
and seven quadrillion types of scratching, but there is really only one
root
shenpa—ego-clinging. We experience it as tightening and self-absorption. It has degrees of intensity. The branch shenpas are all our different styles of scratching that itch.
 
I
recently saw a cartoon of three fish swimming around a hook. One fish
is saying to the other, "The secret is non-attachment." That’s a
shenpa
cartoon: the secret is—don’t bite that hook. If we can catch ourselves
at that place where the urge to bite is strong, we can at least get a
bigger perspective on what’s happening. As we practice this way, we
gain confidence in our own wisdom. It begins to guide us toward the
fundamental aspect of our being—spaciousness, warmth and spontaneity.